L.O.V.E

There were a couple sitting right in front of me during lunch hour this afternoon. They seems be together for at least half a decade ago.

The way they treated each other drew my attention.

When the old lady was about to sit down, the husband helped her out by pushing her bag on the chair away so that she sat convenient. But, the old lady looked inpatient and said:" No need, I can do it myself!"

When the husband pick some of his dishes to her, she said:" I dont want!".

After having their lunch, the old lady hand over her tissue paper to the husband, but the husband said:"is ok, I dont need it."

At first I thought they were fighting. Some how or rather, I think this is the way they show their love after being together for ages.

The old lady worried that her husband may hurt himself when pushing the bag away, thats why she rejected his good intention.

She did not accept the dishes from him because worried that the husband might hungry later.

The husband did not want the tissue paper because he wanted her to keep it for herself in case she need it later.

Quite a funny couple I saw today. L.O.V.E after many many many years!!!!

羡慕还是妒嫉

看到她的post,我..应该羡慕还是妒嫉呢? 假设我是她,应该觉得好幸福.但是,如果我是他的女友,我会觉得心...好痛..好痛...

我会是哪一个她呢?很希望是前者....

这证明什么? 意味着..原来很多事情是一辈子忘不了的..得不到的东西永远是最美的..不是吗?事实摆在眼前!

为什么要这样子?为什么要让我看到这个残酷的事实.....

我不想发生在我身上!!!!!

I want a vacation!!!!!

Oh my god! I am always in holiday mood.....

Holiday and vacation had been one of my target in life. Thats what people said 'enjoy' your life, isn't it?

Whenever think of going overseas, it make me feeling great!!! Can't wait for long leave to come. I want to stay away from this boring routine lifestyle.

Please give me some more leave. P.L.E.A.S.E

Down!!!! Down!!!! Down!!!!

Feeling down!!! Everthing was changed after the 2 weeks leave. Sometimes, there is peak and low in our life. But for me, I cant accept too much of changes in a short period of time. Feel suffocated, feel tension,feel like crying but tears stay still in the eyes.

Sometimes I am curious. Curious about human being. There are always many people out there that do not like to live in peace and harmony. They like to make people's life miserable. Why are they choosing this behavior as part of their leisure and entertainment? If luck do not side us, we will fall into thier trap!!!!

Thinking of shun from this group of beast. God bless me!!! But there are still alot of things to think of before making any move. I need to be brave. It just...a timing issue.....

哇!!!

第一次踏进飞机,哇..实在紧张又兴奋.那种感觉难以形容.担心,是怕飞机出事.兴奋是因为第一次出国远行.原来我也有这机会.发梦都没想过的事情.也可说是我梦想成真吧!!!

第一次看这里的天空.那时候是傍晚五点半.我跟哈泥第一个反映是一致的.哇老..怎么酱像我们的傍晚七点半.外面的温度是十五度.我们俩毫不犹豫的把握时间,立刻到它们最出名的夜市去大吃特吃.果然名不虚实,这里很多很好吃又特别的东西.我们果然来对了.因为吃,就是我们的最爱...

记得第一天到达很steady..只是穿了一件普通jacket配singlet.心理面还不停偷笑,为什么它们的人酱爱美.明明就不是那么冷,为什么还要穿到好像包棕子一样,还要穿那种包鞋长到膝盖那里的.真的有酱冷吗?

第二天早上我们就开始跟团了.哇,这地方可不小哦!去每个地方都要乘车五到四小时.屁股坐到'酸溜溜的'.天气一天比一天冷.沿路听导游说这里的历史,可让我增加不少学问.原来这里是受日本文化影响的地方.难怪吃早餐时会听到有人讲日语啦...

最后一天是最冷的.是七度叻.冷到....牙齿都要开始跳起舞来...回想当初还笑人真是觉得自己有点白痴..哈哈....

五天就这样过去了.突然间会有一种依依不舍的心情.是对这个地方留念呢?还是..不舍得my long vacation? I think is both ;-)

Its like raining cats and dogs

Everything is pretty messy. She is facing mood swing and hormones imbalace. Sometimes she feel like blaming herself for lost of temper. Life is difficult and full of challenging. Does every one ever heard of smooth in life in every circumstances? I think the answer should be 'no'. It actually depends on how we cope with it and convert every single bad thing to good one. Our mind must always be positive!

She must calm down,calm down and calm down. She must also remember that no matter what is going on,she must control herself, to be more patient. It just a test in life. DON'T EVER EVER HURT YOUR LOVE ONE OR YOU MIGHt BE HURT!!!

夫妻相处之道

刚刚看了一则满有意义的post.演讲者分析了为何现代离婚率偏高. 问题是出在男人身上还是女人呢?
答案是女人!!

我本身是女人. 所以会觉得是么?男人都是坏东西.可以说全部女人都希望她们的老公都是能干的,富有的,疼自自己的,对自己死心塌地的,听话的,还有很多很多要求.....是不是?其实回想起男人也不容易做喔!

根据该演讲者,为什么男人要去花天酒地? 因为那边比起自己的家漂亮多了,而且一踏进门口就有一些脸带笑容迎接他们的美女.比起家里那个整天唠叨又埋怨的老婆,你会选谁呢?话说起来也不是没有道里的.很多女人就像管家婆一样什么都要管.希望老公千依百顺,什么都要老公听自己的意思去做,这样就爽了.但有没有考虑到男人的感受呢?

男人什么都可以不要,可面子却不能丢!现代的女人越来越强.不会尊重男人的女人让男人更难受和自卑.这样一来男人唯有到外头寻欢咯.每个男人回到家都希望一踏近家门口,就看见自己的老婆满脸春风似的说:"老公你回来啦!"每天早上睡醒打睁开眼睛第一件事就看见自己的女人微笑,那个幸福的模样.这样男人才会有成就感,才会更加的疼你!

女人应该多多支持男人. 每个成功的男人背后都有一个聪明的女人.互相包容,互相体谅,婚姻自然会长久.一时的傲曼破坏了一个美好的婚姻值得吗?想想一个美好的家庭还是与爱人分开哪个比较快乐呢?

有时候说未免比做来的容易.所以.....加油吧!!!!!!!